Polyamory Do’s #3: Remember that your partners will all be individual in their attention needs, just as you are. Just because one may be ok with not hearing from you for a whole day, this may be incredibly anxiety inducing for your other partner. It’s important to get to know your partners needs and try to keep an agreed level of contact with them, providing all personal circumstances permit it.
Everyones needs are different – it’s really important to understand those needs in your partner(s), and what your role may be in helping reach those needs between you and any partners.
This is why communication is so important, it helps set realistic goals in what’s possible for you and any partner involved.